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Bridging the Mental Health Gap Across Generations During Festive Family Gatherings

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Fostering Understanding, Connection, and Well-Being Across Generations This Festive Season.


A multi-generational Asian family gathered around a dining table, enjoying a festive meal together. Traditional red lanterns and decorations hang in the background, creating a warm and joyful atmosphere.

Chinese New Year is a time for celebration, togetherness, and honouring shared

traditions. It brings families together under one roof, creating opportunities for

storytelling, laughter, and reflection. Yet, these moments of connection can also

highlight differences—particularly regarding attitudes towards mental health.

For some, mental health is viewed through the lens of resilience and quiet

perseverance, shaped by cultural values and life experiences. For others, it is a topic

to be openly discussed and prioritised, part of a broader shift towards emotional

awareness and individual well-being. These differences are not conflicts but

reflections of the unique journeys each generation has taken. With empathy and

understanding, these perspectives can complement each other, creating a richer and

more supportive family dynamic.


A Tapestry of Perspectives


How mental health is perceived, discussed, and addressed often varies across

generations, rooted in the cultural, historical, and personal contexts that shaped their

lives.


1. The Strength of Lived Experience

For older generations, mental health may be tied to resilience and collective

responsibility. Growing up in economic or social upheaval, they often prioritise

stability, family harmony, and pragmatic solutions to challenges. Emotional struggles

were addressed through action, self-discipline, or communal support, focusing less

on labelling or explicitly addressing feelings.


2. The Advocacy of Younger Generations

Younger generations, shaped by growing mental health awareness and access to

information, tend to see mental health as integral to overall well-being. They are

more likely to use terms like “stress,” “anxiety,” or “boundaries” and advocate for

therapy, self-care, and emotional openness. This shift reflects an effort to normalise

mental health discussions and break down stigma, but the language and approach

can sometimes feel unfamiliar or unnecessary to older relatives.


3. Language and Shared Values

The gap between these perspectives often lies not in intention but in communication.

Older generations may express emotional struggles regarding physical well-being,

such as feeling “overwhelmed” or “exhausted,” while younger ones may lean on

psychological vocabulary. Bridging this gap requires recognising that these

differences are not a lack of understanding but a reflection of how mental health is

framed within cultural and generational contexts.


The Challenge of Festive Gatherings

Chinese New Year, focusing on family and tradition, naturally brings these

generational differences to the forefront. Questions from elders about life

milestones—marriage, career, children—can feel intrusive or stressful to younger

family members. Meanwhile, older relatives might perceive younger generations’

focus on mental health as overly individualistic, prioritising personal well-being over

family unity.


While understandable, these tensions offer a chance to build deeper

connections. By navigating these differences with sensitivity and care, families can

create an environment where all voices are heard and valued.


Bridging the Mental Health Gap


1. Recognise the Value of Collective Narratives

Family gatherings are more than celebrations; they are opportunities to share and

honour the stories that bind us. Older generations bring wisdom and lived

experiences that reflect resilience and community, while younger family members

offer fresh perspectives and insights. Families can create a stronger collective narrative by recognising these contributions as complementary rather than conflicting.


For instance, you might say:

"Your advice about handling stress stuck with me—it’s made me think about how to

balance things in my life better."


2. Focus on Shared Values

Both generations share a desire for harmony and well-being. Framing mental health

discussions around these common goals can make the topic feel less divisive.

For example:

"I’ve been learning to manage stress to be more present and enjoy these moments

together. It’s made me think about how we can all stay healthy for each other."


3. Meet Each Other Where You Are

Adapt your language to your audience. With older relatives, avoid jargon or overly

clinical terms. Instead, talk about well-being, balance, or staying calm. Similarly,

younger family members can ask questions and listen actively to understand their elders perspectives better.


4. Lead by Example

Show, don’t just tell. Share how prioritising your mental health has positively

impacted your relationships, energy, or focus. Demonstrating these benefits creates

a natural invitation for others to consider their well-being.


5. Respect Boundaries

Not every conversation has to delve deeply into mental health. If someone isn’t

ready to engage, respect their comfort level and revisit the topic when it feels right.

The goal is to create space for connection, not force a dialogue.


Fostering Connection Across Generations

Chinese New Year is a celebration of shared traditions, family unity, and hope for the

future. It is also a reminder of the value of connection—not just in the present but

across time and generations.


Older generations offer the strength of their lived experiences, carrying wisdom

shaped by resilience and community. Younger family members bring fresh insights,

challenging norms and opening doors to new conversations about well-being.

Together, these perspectives weave a richer, more supportive narrative that honours

the past while embracing the needs of the future.


A Celebration of Understanding

As families come together to celebrate amidst vibrant traditions and festive warmth, it

is worth remembering that the heart of Chinese New Year lies in connection. By

embracing empathy, curiosity, and respect, we can bridge generational gaps,

creating an environment where every family member feels valued and understood.


This festive season, let the conversations flow, the stories be shared, and the bonds

strengthened. In doing so, we celebrate the traditions that bring us together and lay

the foundation for a more connected and compassionate future.



Restoring Peace is a private mental health centre which provides counselling and psychotherapy

services for children, adolescents, youths, adult individuals, couples and groups with anxiety,

depression, trauma, grief and various mental health and relationship challenges. For more

information, please visit www.restoringpeace.com.sg or WhatsApp at +65 8889 1848. For periodic

updates, we invite you to join our telegram group: https://t.me/restoringpeace.


Additional Read:



Sources:

Mental Health Foundation. (n.d.). Why the language we use to describe mental health matters. Retrieved from

Cigna Singapore. (n.d.). Mental health stigma in Asia. Retrieved from https://www.cigna.com.sg

YoungMinds. (n.d.). How to talk to older generations about mental health. Retrieved from


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